dude, im happy to have you here. and even RA too. i think people just got a hump about race stuff, you know. europe and usa are different places, similar but lots of subtle differences. where problems come from is assumptions, and we all pretty much guess what we think we know. everyone has unique experiences. ok, but assumptions about people on basis of skin color is a faux pas. like all black dudes have big dicks and listen to rap music or all white guys like mayonaisse and love polka, all koreans eat dogs, you get what im saying? id like to get past it all tbh i think we can. its a lot of um.. i guess open wound. there's people that hate people based on race and beliefs and i dont think thats how you are. even though its silly to think we're all homogenous group of people right.. but we are all people..< thats common denominator. i forget where im going with this.. it was something about deindividualization by grouping up people based on skin tone or whatever.
anyway...
long story short, its ok man. we are who we are. fat thin black white gay straight. we're all targets for mockery... mockery on individual basis based on our actions not whats on the outside, cos it can't be helped. unless you are a ginger, then its ok. or super fat. thats ok too. or if you just make fun of everyone, then you get away with it cos then you're being fair. thems the rules. fuck the jews.
im here all week.

oioioi wrote:
I sign in here because I like a lot of the people here.

That a problem for you?

batou wrote:
Yes you hit the nail on the head.

I think that people who take such offense have to constantly convince themselves their not racists, just as a person constantly puts down a gay they have these feelings themselves and it scares them.

We have been programmed to not be free spirits and to live in a box of repression, that's why human cruelty is the end game not understanding and help.

You are actually the rock here if you know it or not

Rick wrote:
Nice bit of pseud work but I was aiming my question at the person I quoted.

Rick, I'm sorry you have a problem with some of us here. I have a problem with some of the people here ffs, and I'm sure there are some who have a problem with me (I know there are actually). But for me nationality has nothing to do with anything. I don't care where a person is from, or what colour they are, or their sexual orientation etc etc etc. I accept people for who they are , some rub the right way and some rub the wrong way, we are all like that surely?

oioioi wrote:

I just realized that my bad of course

So I guess it was intended for you to hear what I said in my expressed opinion

What is that that I have highlighted in bold may I ask you

im not a rock man, i got my problems same as everyone else. hey, we all come together try to figure out our problems and pass the time, bitch about the world and get a feeling of community. we turn on each other and its over. same as the real world. we got each others backs even if one of us likes pepsi and the other likes coke.

batou wrote:
Aye but some don't really want to thrash out their grievances, they'd rather just pop in and tell us how shit the place is occasionally and wave an unsubstantiated finger about. When asked to substantiate a flounce usual soon follows.

jhado wrote:

I'm very much like you and it takes a effort everyday to keep accepting of others way's, for the most part I am in solitude mentally, but very social in the physical.

My best friend is Hispanic, my riding a bike with buddy is a small bodied black dude who is bat shit crazy, and he talks more trash about fellow blacks than any white racists I know

anyway thank you so much for your supportive words maybe we can continue on without any real hate generated by mere words thanks again.

You will become strong in your tolerance of others

Mate, you won't believe what or who I have to tolerate at the minute. It ain't easy believe me, but although I am having to tolerate others, it's a crash course.

oioioi wrote:
If that is a reference to irre's recent comments, let me just correct you there.

He wasn't saying the place is shit, he was saying you are. Get it right.

diamondgeezer wrote:
But he was wrong though.

Matter of opinion is that sketti.

diamondgeezer wrote:
Did he stick around and validate his point or flounce?

Which will you do?

And it wasn't aimed at Irre

If it wasn't aimed at irre (ofc it wasn't ), then who was it aimed at?

diamondgeezer wrote:
You!

Yes, of course it was oi....because I 'flounced' after 'waving an unsubstantiated finger about', didn't I?

You're a fuckwit pal.

diamondgeezer wrote:
Thank you for your answer.

No problem for me, it does appear to be a problem for you though as your contribution to SZ lately is swearing at me.

oioioi wrote:
More unsubstantiated bollocks, unsurprisingly.

Now, I'm just popping out to the offy. Would you like me to get you anything whilst I'm there? I think you need it.

oioioi wrote: diamondgeezer wrote:
A flounce usually follows. A prediction on my part. If I was referring to Irre it'd read "a flounce followed".

And yes, unsubstantiated.

Or have you added substance to your claim that I'm more responsible for the split at SZ than the split itself?

Substantiate to your heart's content, or call me a cunt again.

I wonder which you'll do?