I like the more thoroughbred olympic volleyball look myself...

I don't care for large breast, but ass and legs I do like...

They are almost always successfully married with children by age 25 to a healthy guy with extra money.

Very hard to find after age 26...

LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
G'day LesleyPumpshaft.

I've been called skinny a few times. My comeback is, "From a fat persons perspective".

Personally, I think everyone has curves. I haven't yet met someone that looks like a Lego figure.

Maybe the slating of 'skinny' people is acceptable nowadays because the population is predominantly overweight / obese.

LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
That's an interesting point Lesley. I can see that some of it may well be a form of backlash against the popularly promoted image of what it is to be feminine etc., but I also think at least some of it is actual women, of all shapes and sizes, standing up for themselves and stating the fairly obvious.

As for the men-folk...well, we tend to go to any port in a storm. See...I'm a big poof and even I'm capable of massive, sweeping generalisations! It does strike me as odd the way the image of men has changed recently too, actually.

It's all nonsense anyway. For the most part, we're all just responding to someone elses ideal or repeating some guff we've read in a magazine somewhere.

You are all beautiful, my fellow forum members. Every one of you. Even the Sketti-monster. If I had the time, and I was sure I wouldn't get punched for my efforts, I'd sex every last one of you up, good n proper.

RealAmerican wrote:
I think Téa Leoni is one of the most beautiful women in the world,and this type of beauty even on a more full figured type would just intensify it,she just looks great,and as she ages will probably just become more beautiful in my opinion

Ab Origine wrote:
You're right about the backlash. As a woman I get peeved at the way fashion dictates body type (not that I pay much attention to it these days). Different looks have been considered beautiful (fashionable) throughout the ages. All of a sudden big booties are in. Obviously I'm going to have to give this trend a miss, what with my skinny white girl's ass. Apparently this is meant to be great news for women, as they no longer have to try and starve themselves to be really thin. As if looking like Beyonce is achievable for me People should ignore the media imo.


Ab Origine wrote:
How do you think the image of men has changed abs?
Ab Origine wrote:
I'm thinking of getting a webcam now

LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
Without dragging this thread too far off topic ( ) I just mean in terms of what is promoted by those that apparently know better than everyone else. Much in the way your 'ideal' woman is to look a certain way and wear certain things. I have noticed a lot recently for example, that much of the 'gay' imagery or homoerotic stuff, I believe it is also referred to as, has worked it's way into the main-stream.

Now, I'm not suggesting that this is some nefarious plot to turn everyone gay , but evidently, some bright spark has clocked the fact that image really does sell. Images such as the completely free of body-hair, chiselled, tanned man, which completed blighted my adolescence, it has to be said, are now everywhere! In my yoot, gay mags and publications were telling me that as a gay, this is what I should look like. Heterosexual men, it seemed to me anyway, were pretty much left to their own devices.

Not any more, it seems. If a woman and a man just left themselves alone and existed as they were intended, they wouldn't need any of these wonderful gizmos and products, see? So it really is the job of the advertisers and media to make you think you need to look this way, or wear these clothes, or shop here. Otherwise, nobody would buy the tat.

oioioi wrote:
Like what?

Go on, elaborate..

diamondgeezer wrote:
Try getting a tit-wank off a set of A-cups, then try doing this with a 'bigger' girl without putting your back out...

I like big girls... And I like small girls, and I like almost anything between. Well, big curvy chicks for me it is. Big titties are nice too. Good for you leslie.

And about guys, long hair always works. Haha, I really don't like this overly feminine emo look some kids have these days.. Men look like men thanks, not like little girlies. When I was doing my civil service, I met many gay men there, good guys most of the time. One chap specially, he didn't like the "feminine gay" look and behavior at all. He said it's just stupid, gay or straight, man is a man and lady is a lady.

hehe, this is gunny topic, always worth a talk.

oioioi wrote:
Very good point...

Well you did ask DG...

I don't really have a type...I've been turned on by a woman's voice Attraction is attraction, it can be instant and it can grow over time.

The ladies I've been with have all been quite curvy though, lots of bottom and bosom

It may sound completely disingenuous, but I have always been more attracted to a persons personality.
Most 'beautiful' people I've met are deeply absorbed in a relationship with themselves.

Ab Origine wrote:
OMG! No, Abs! This woman is a big, fat heap, comprised of the worst kind of fats. What the "packing" around her heart and innards is like heaven knows.

This is a body shape I would detest to be. I suppose, trying to look at her from a male viewpoint, she becomes a big, meaty mattress; but as a human being you've got to be able to do more than cook, eat and lie ready for a bloke's use. God protect the horse than this woman ever sat up on... and if it then has to try lifting her over a fence.....

I'm glad to see so many men say (claim) that personality counts so much - then remeber: this woman is NIGELLA LAWSON... have you all forgotten the thing that raised her in his own image - NIGEL LAWSON.

cantata wrote:
I don't understand. What else is there?

Poor, old, Nigella. I'd still 'do her'...having not said that before I've suddenly realised why.

Plus, you've kind of ruined it for me now, with the whole 'Nigel' thing.

You bitch.

cantata wrote:
LOLOLOLOL

For the record this topic was sticky before I arrived and not sure what the sticky substance is but I will say that I appreciate women of all body types. I dislike the fact that the fashion/media industry and perhaps society as a whole appears to want everybody one way but one way is never the way. People will always be different shapes and sizes and really it is just a shame that people and institutions do not celebrate diversity more. I mean of course if you look around you can find that people do fill those voids(specialist magazines and the like) but as always the mainstream is not the best place to find it.

i like most people