Purely in the interests of fairness and equal rights, you understand, ladies: what goes into your ideal man? Do you have a type or preference?

I'll kick us off with this little gem:



Tom Hardy (back off Quiet Girl). It's the lips, I reckon.

NOM, NOM, NOM, NOM...

eyes smile and hands - the eyes have to have that slightly naughty sparkle and kindness to them - the smile has to be genuine and the hands those squarish man hands

thoreau wrote:
That's pretty much the same for me, physical wise. Especially the square man hands! Otherwise, it's all about sense of humour.

Actually, a cheeky wink makes me go all gooey.

Sense of humour for sure

personality wise (applies equally to men and women for me) humour is really important - kindness, loyalty, openmindedness, generosity of spirit - and not quite sure how to accurately describe the next attribute - I guess drive or passion or joie de vivre - something that makes them want to get out of bed in the morning and face the world - preferably non materialistic never found avarice to be attractive.

For me physically, it is the eyes. There has to be a glimmer in there that speaks to mine and compels me to long to dive into the depths of his soul, a sense of wisdom lurking in there.

Personality wise I appreciate a man with a good sense of humour who loves to laugh, even at himself. Someone that is not afraid to delve into the unknown and who is driven on seeking knowledge and learning. Someone very in touch with his soul and who is a true kindred spirit. Integrity and loyalty are wonderful traits, passionate as well as kindness (and a tad wicked)

I like what I like.

Humour however, is very important.

psketti wrote:
Thank you for that insightful contribution, skett-monster.

ffs.

Early this morning before dawn, I was on my way to the local animal sanctuary (where I'm a volunteer, I'm very passionate about animal welfare and am loving all the new knowledge I'm gaining) when a tiny moth flew into my eye. It was very cloudy and no moon was visible so I can only guess it had mistaken the oft commented on twinkle of my eye for the reptilian spaceship they navigate by.
Anyway, I could feel the poor thing fluttering so I knew it was still alive. Straight away I started the mission to save it's life. Unfortunately, I have rather square hands and fingers and I just couldn't release the now slightly panicky lepidoptera with them.
So I had to get a stick and scrape the cornea in such a way as to get between it and the moth. It was very uncomfortable but eventually the wee winged beasty was free. I placed it on a bush and sat and watched with my non streaming ocular organ whilst it chilled out and went to sleep as the sun rose in the sky. Phew what a relief eh!

There's something about a man's voice that can make him appear sexy to me even when his physical appearance doesn't do much for me initially. I think the voice can give away something about a person's energy. Oioioi has a sexy voice btw.

Do any ladies here ever take a sneaky peek at the groinal area when they're pretty sure that a man won't catch them looking?

Gilly wrote:

LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
Never. It might be just my prudishness, but willies are ugly.

Gilly wrote:
Yeah I'll agree with that

psketti wrote:
Oh, I thought you were agreeing about willies being ugly.

Gilly wrote:
Nope

Bunch of bastards

dubmeup wrote:
Makes you more endearing cuz I know every word of that's true

Too late.
Get stuffed

dubmeup wrote: