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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 22:52 #21

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Nosey, that is just about thee most common response amongst folks dealing with debt issues.
It has become a learned response though and you should confront and gut out that email inbox asap girl!
Take back your life! :yup:

Unless you're just a whimpering, wee, woosie, woman of course.
Then you'd best leave it alone until you can persuade some male to go do it for you.
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I've never been a whimpering wee woosie before but the debt and foreclosure process did me in. There was a notice taped to my front door which I could see through the window and I could not even bring myself to read it. I left it there and started using the back door to enter and exit.

You're right about the email. I's skerred though and it is completely irrational. Beyond any bank emails, I might get an email from someone wanting to talk, asking how I am, am I working yet, blah blah blah and I do not know what to say anymore so I just avoid everybody and everything because I hate to admit what a loser I have become.

:mail: <<<<<< not me
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:05 #22

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I've never been a whimpering wee woosie before but the debt and foreclosure process did me in. There was a notice taped to my front door which I could see through the window and I could not even bring myself to read it. I left it there and started using the back door to enter and exit.

You're right about the email. I's skerred though and it is completely irrational. Beyond any bank emails, I might get an email from someone wanting to talk, asking how I am, am I working yet, blah blah blah and I do not know what to say anymore so I just avoid everybody and everything because I hate to admit what a loser I have become.

:mail: <<<<<< not me

"Hi ................

Sorry I've been out of touch for so long, had a bit rough time lately but I'm starting to crawl out of the wreckage.
Gimmie some time to get things together, (including this overflowing backlog in my inbox, lol).
Lovely to hear from you btw :)

xxxxx
Luv 'n stuff
Nosey"


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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:07 #23

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Awww. thank you feather! That actually brought a tear to my eye.

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I lied, my face is getting a little wet.
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:15 #24

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I've got sooooooooooooooo much food p0rn that I wanna cram into your box, I mean inbox, inbox, email!!! :O :umm: :facepalm:

And you're NOT a loser, Nosey!! :toetap: Not even close!! :turt: <<< that's the tortoise that wins the race.... see what I did there? :teef:
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:20 #25

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It's a blatant, eyelash fluttering, attempt to solicit emails from us innocents phem.

Careful mate, careful. :coffee:
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:24 #26

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MrsGood wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
..... I have to have a light on to even attempt to sleep anymore .....

*Makes note in dossier*

For a REALLY good night, remember that StarsChildren will be awake all night if the lights are all turned off. :psketti:

:hmm: I'll also be in a panic most of the night as well and liable to have a complete meltdown... so, can we really call that a "REALLY good night"?

G'day StarsChildren.

Clarification <---> A REALLY good night for me. :psketti:

Apart from that, you'll be too busy to have any meltdown. ;) :D

I reckon you should shut the fuck up IAAIA, Stars has a genuine fear

G'day MrsGood.

You are of course entitled to "reckon" whatever you like, whether about me or anyone else. If StarsChildren wanted me to "shut the fuck up", then I am sure StarsChildren would have stated exactly that.

Maybe you should be taking your own advice. ;)
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:33 #27

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I AM ALL I AM wrote:
MrsGood wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
..... I have to have a light on to even attempt to sleep anymore .....

*Makes note in dossier*

For a REALLY good night, remember that StarsChildren will be awake all night if the lights are all turned off. :psketti:

:hmm: I'll also be in a panic most of the night as well and liable to have a complete meltdown... so, can we really call that a "REALLY good night"?

G'day StarsChildren.

Clarification <---> A REALLY good night for me. :psketti:

Apart from that, you'll be too busy to have any meltdown. ;) :D

I reckon you should shut the fuck up IAAIA, Stars has a genuine fear

G'day MrsGood.

You are of course entitled to "reckon" whatever you like, whether about me or anyone else. If StarsChildren wanted me to "shut the fuck up", then I am sure StarsChildren would have stated exactly that.

Maybe you should be taking your own advice. ;)

I don't think it's funny peoples fears, and would never make glib comments, that didn't show care for those that suffer.
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:36 #28

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It's a blatant, eyelash fluttering, attempt to solicit emails from us innocents phem.

Careful mate, careful. :coffee:

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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:42 #29

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It's a blatant, eyelash fluttering, attempt to solicit emails from us innocents phem.

Careful mate, careful. :coffee:

I know! Part of me is fully aware of the impending danger of illicit liasons via electronic text communications and yet part of me is still dying to get sucked in, throttled full-force into the swirling spiral of back & forths, clever wordplay and possible exchange of intellectually stimulating topics of conversation. But really it's just the thought of the throttling that's getting me all moist like fresh toast-sweat on a cold, marble countertop....

*swabs forehead with cool, wet cloth and breathes deeply*
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:44 #30

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Easy bro, yer fookin' scaring me now! :O :( :secret: :fraid:
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Re: Irrational Fears 08 Nov 2012 23:48 #31

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MrsGood wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
MrsGood wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
I AM ALL I AM wrote:
StarsChildren wrote:
..... I have to have a light on to even attempt to sleep anymore .....

*Makes note in dossier*

For a REALLY good night, remember that StarsChildren will be awake all night if the lights are all turned off. :psketti:

:hmm: I'll also be in a panic most of the night as well and liable to have a complete meltdown... so, can we really call that a "REALLY good night"?

G'day StarsChildren.

Clarification <---> A REALLY good night for me. :psketti:

Apart from that, you'll be too busy to have any meltdown. ;) :D

I reckon you should shut the fuck up IAAIA, Stars has a genuine fear

G'day MrsGood.

You are of course entitled to "reckon" whatever you like, whether about me or anyone else. If StarsChildren wanted me to "shut the fuck up", then I am sure StarsChildren would have stated exactly that.

Maybe you should be taking your own advice. ;)

I don't think it's funny peoples fears, and would never make glib comments, that didn't show care for those that suffer.
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 00:05 #32

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Okay...

@IA, it did unsettle me for a minute...BUT I think you were joking (and if you weren't, you are officially on the list)...if I had any real concerns about you just popping up in the middle of the night, killing the lights, and having "a really good night", I'd be sleeping with more than one knife under my pillow and multiple layers of clothing. So we're good.

@MrsGood, thanks but in wearing myself on my sleeve as I do (or so I've been told) I kind of open myself up to comments good or bad. I wont lose any sleep over it, as some people know I take enough to put a rhino on it's ass in order to sleep anyway, so IA's comments are not gonna effect the sleeping habits. And while I agree it's not nice to make fun of peoples fears, I also don't think it's horrible to try and turn it into a joke to try and relax people...humor and stupid comments are kinda how I help people I know deal with things.

Now you two, hug, kiss, whatever and make up :)

@NMG, you're NOT a loser...not in any way shape or form. You deal with things how you feel you need to and someday it'll get better for ya.

@Phem... take your foot off the throttle/gas pedal and slow down a bit. Email, text, and skype are dangerous things, you could get locked up joints and sore hands/fingers from typing/texting so much.
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 00:10 #33

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Yeah i know, your one tough cookie but believe you should stand up for your inner child exactly the same way in which you would stand up for your child, and i'm sure you wouldn't let any-one rip your childs fears.
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 01:41 #34

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StarsChildren wrote:
Okay...

@IA, it did unsettle me for a minute...BUT I think you were joking (and if you weren't, you are officially on the list)...if I had any real concerns about you just popping up in the middle of the night, killing the lights, and having "a really good night", I'd be sleeping with more than one knife under my pillow and multiple layers of clothing. So we're good.

.....

G'day StarsChildren.

Of course we're "good" sunshine. :thumbup: It would be improbable that it wasn't a joke, especially as I would have to fly from Australia to America prior to being able to find you and keep you awake all night.

MrsGood though, apparently has an axe to grind with me for whatever reason and decided to attempt to create a division (ill feeling, whatever) where there is none.

By the way, what was your address ? :psketti:
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 01:56 #35

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Okay...

@IA, it did unsettle me for a minute...BUT I think you were joking (and if you weren't, you are officially on the list)...if I had any real concerns about you just popping up in the middle of the night, killing the lights, and having "a really good night", I'd be sleeping with more than one knife under my pillow and multiple layers of clothing. So we're good.

.....

G'day StarsChildren.

Of course we're "good" sunshine. :thumbup: It would be improbable that it wasn't a joke, especially as I would have to fly from Australia to America prior to being able to find you and keep you awake all night.

MrsGood though, apparently has an axe to grind with me for whatever reason and decided to attempt to create a division (ill feeling, whatever) where there is none.

By the way, what was your address ? :psketti:

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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 02:04 #36

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Watch out for the pitbull :D
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 02:06 #37

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Watch out for the pitbull :D

:spank: shut up fool, just zip it!!
I don't know what he's talking about, there is no pitbull (except the one who piddles on the floor while she growls) here, it's perfectly safe!
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Is fear of failure an irrational fear?

Perhaps it's not failure I'm afraid of...maybe I'm afraid of success :O
Nah, thinking about it I think it's just failure I'm a bit scared of.
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Re: Irrational Fears 09 Nov 2012 02:18 #40

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Okay...

@IA, it did unsettle me for a minute...BUT I think you were joking (and if you weren't, you are officially on the list)...if I had any real concerns about you just popping up in the middle of the night, killing the lights, and having "a really good night", I'd be sleeping with more than one knife under my pillow and multiple layers of clothing. So we're good.

.....

G'day StarsChildren.

Of course we're "good" sunshine. :thumbup: It would be improbable that it wasn't a joke, especially as I would have to fly from Australia to America prior to being able to find you and keep you awake all night.

MrsGood though, apparently has an axe to grind with me for whatever reason and decided to attempt to create a division (ill feeling, whatever) where there is none.

By the way, what was your address ? :psketti:

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632 fuck you lane, I'll leave the porch light on for you so you don't fall over the steps or brick :D

G'day StarsChildren.

Ahhh, so you would likely know Ben Dover, he lives on Fuck You Lane as well. :D

Ahhhh, leave the light off, just in case you fall asleep. ;)

I'll start flapping my arms and will see you soon(ish). :psketti:
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