OK here is my question,
Someone asks you your opinion on a individual that is suppose to be very intelligent and has a decent position, but has a tendency to blow his money on frivolous self gratifying bullshit and has a fascination with women half his age, but not sexually,, and almost 100% per cent his motivation with younger women is just for a front of show off type stuff.

What opinion would you tell someone whats up with this guy?

I would just say that he's living the dream and entitled to do so. If what he's doing makes him happy and he isn't harming anyone else, then so be it.

Something like that is what I'd say rick

psketti wrote:
That is a very good thought psketti, because most people starting to think he is a self absorbed/personal gratification type asshole, and he is starting to make enemies,
He may as you say just doing what makes him happy, interesting way you looked at that

Again if no-one is being hurt that what's to complain about?
I can imagine some of the sniping he may be attracting is fuelled by jealousy.

I personally find people who used each other as trophies, either for their looks or their wealth/power, to be damn shallow and insecure company.

Rick wrote:
He's gay.

oioioi wrote: Good call!

oioioi wrote:
That is what someone else said that has known him awhile, but no one knows for sure because he talks and acts homophobe

Rick wrote: Done deal.
He's 100% gay!!

I wonder how anyone would know that his attention toward the younger women is for show, and not just for the pleasure of their company.

Someone I used to work with used to talk like a homophobe, but admitted eventually to being gay - as if everyone didn't already know! It was a cover because he was fearful of people's reaction to him if they knew. And maybe a way of sounding our people's opinion on the subject. He used to slag gays off to me, and I'd tell him to stop being a bigotted prat in my earshot. In fact, virtually everybody liked him, because he was just likeable.

He genuinely liked women's company though. It was obvious.

Gilly wrote:
This guy flaunts and brags about any women he dates, even to the point of sending pictures texts to me and several others, pictures of him with a lady at dinner nothing R rated, just in a look at me I'm special kind of way, he must be doing something else because I was asked my opinion on him,

He also has pissed off a guy who used to like him, by talking down to him and acting like a know it all.

When we communicate face to face he acts almost bubbly and like were best friends , which I find weird

Perhaps he's just a bit daft.

Rick wrote: Guys?
Am I alone in my thinking here or does Rick have an admirer ready to share some moisturiser tips with him?

Moisturiser tips - ewww! Shouldn't be allowed!

feather wrote:
I find his personality abrasive at times, but it's almost like he has a multiple personality when he comes off really buddy buddy to complete strangers then can be the uppity type in the flash of a second

I no nothing of any relationships he may have consummated, I have heard rumors about the ones he could have but didn't.,


Keep the input coming in I lack in this area of understanding people

oioioi wrote:

This "guy" isn't you is it Rick?

Let me say that if this 'guy' is you Rick It wouldn't make the slightest bit of difference to me and I'm certain everyone else here.

i-baster wrote:
No

feather wrote:
No I am not that guy and really never could be our personalities are completely opposite, but this one guy said a women this guy had was begging him for sex, and then wondered why he never gave her any, I know this for a fact.

Rick wrote:
Ya know we're messing about a little mate but I guess you also know that someone being gay would never be an issue on here anyhow.

I think I recall us discussing this guy before.
His girlfriend was a real looker and he never touched her so she took off with one of his other mates or something?
Same guy?

I'm sure we drew the same conclusion then iirc.