Begging for sex ....NO

Gagging...............YES

Rick wrote:
Money is the biggie.

I've been married 15 years now and its the one thing we nearly always argue about and yes it pisses me off no end.
My wife has at least never had to work too and has managed to stay at home with the kids and has for the most part had a decent life compared to many but ppl just need to understand that 'it'll never be enough' to quote John Ortberg

Y'know what - I think the biggest problem can be neglect. It kills you slowly, because it takes such a long time to accept that it's not going to change. Then the hurt of that turns to anger and resentment. Don't neglect your partner. It's never all about sex.

Wise words there gilly

Gilly wrote:
Very true.

I also like a peaceful environment when I watch football or have a dump.

Neglect me all you want during these periods of time.

The problems a married couple has are much the same as the problems of a single person for the most part. It is just a question of how you deal with stuff. Share, talk, give and take. As Gilly said it's never all about sex. The sex is just the way the problems are manifested and for some they are the first indicator that the relationship is not perfect.

oioioi wrote:
That's crazy talk. You have children. You may never watch football or have a dump in peace again for many years. You should know this, and accept it gracefully. They will soon be able to rive locks off doors.