This is more common than you would think, and the law is very defined that it is not the obligation of a spouse to have sex if they don't want to.

I usually start topics about things I hear {small town gossip} and at the coffee shop there was talk about a guy who is having to beg his wife for sex, apparently this is a very common occurrence with married couples, which I didn't know.

I think I would beg to be honest

It does happen that after a few years of marriage things cool off in that department

I dunno whether its a big deal tbh, varies according to the guy concerned I suppose.

Rick wrote:
I've known plenty of married women that complain about the lack of sexual activity from their partners. I think it cuts both ways, mate.

hugorune wrote:
Could well do, I'd say women going off it is far more common though

protip - ladies spread for romance.

It does cut both ways. Not that you'd catch me begging for it!

batou wrote:
Don't we all.

Sweet words and a box of Belgium chocolates is the quickest way into my long-johns.

Gilly wrote:

Y'loony!

lol @ batou with the protip....

I don't get it, once she's shackled don't undo her

I am sure there are times when people don't really want sex but go along with it for there other half. You know a couple is two people and their sex drives might not always be running in sync. You might want it more or less than them or at different times. It is just one of the parts of marriage you have to work at.

oioioi wrote:
HA! So you'll need to cook & do the house scrubbing yourself then! Sounds OK to me.

i-baster wrote:
My mind has been tainted, I don't know many happy long term married people, I know many who are divorced and have had multiple marriages, sex or money is usually the underlying reason for the split.

Incompatibility is what they tell you in public was the reason

Gilly wrote:
Are we negotiating our pre-nups in public then?

Maybe.

Gilly wrote:
I quite agree. Paying, maybe...but I've never had to beg.

Ab Origine wrote:
Hi abs

Rick wrote:


Hey Rick