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Gender Neutral Parenting 18 Feb 2014 15:15 #1

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Gender Neutral Parenting 18 Feb 2014 15:20 #2

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In the process of making him not be a 'certain way' they're making him a 'certain way'.
“Fascists are not human. A snake is more human.” - Hugo Chávez
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Gender Neutral Parenting 18 Feb 2014 15:56 #3

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Gender has to be clearly DEFINED since birth.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 00:46 #4

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Hmmm. I can see the sense in allowing (encouraging, even) a boy to play with dolls if he shows an interest in doing so.

But taking him out to the park in a girl's pink coat when he's of an age to not give a double fuck what colour coat he's wearing.... as long as he gets to the park? :conf:

Tbh, I'm not even sure this is real. The looks, actions, home of the 'couple' didn't all sit right with me. I can't be assed to google stalk them right now. maybe I will tomorrow :D
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:16 #5

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That poor kid. What sort of man will he become?
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:21 #6

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If he's on face book he has a choice of 50 to pick from
my limbless friend will die alone
a torso of flesh upon the throne

Violence is not the answer, it is the question. the answer is yes.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:26 #7

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batou wrote:
If he's on face book he has a choice of 50 to pick from

I wonder if his parents have set an account up for him. I also wonder what children post on facebook before they mature and start posting pictures of cats.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:40 #8

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That's really what the net is about. Cats being cool.
Who cares what kids say. Back in the mine heshe.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:48 #9

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I dare that idiot woman to dress up her husband in a pink dress and send him out for a job interview.
Unless you're in Scotland or Saudi Arabia, a dress on a man is a no no.
There's enough shit you have to go through when growing up, school is one of them, they are setting up this poor kid to a life of teasing and bullying.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:54 #10

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There some smoking hot trannies. I don't really give a shit what people live their life as but forcing kids to fulfill the parents broken dreams is bullshit.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:55 #11

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There's a big difference between gender roles and dress codes. It's alright to teach your boy to do some house chores and clean after himself, cook, hell even send him to dance class. Men make better chefs than women, and some are terrific dancers too. But to have a boy, who doesn't display any signs of gender identity crisis go through that shit because his parents are idiots, it's just wrong imho.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:56 #12

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The whole thing stinks of dailymail windup tbh.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:58 #13

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This is a good example of being "born in a wrong body"

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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 13:59 #14

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andyh wrote:
The whole thing stinks of dailymail windup tbh.

Yea, just found the article.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2559748...grow-aggressive.html
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 15:11 #15

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Here is this article on the rise of sex change of minors,


www.cbsnews.com/news/sex-change-treatment-for-kids-on-the-rise/
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Gender Neutral Parenting 19 Feb 2014 17:35 #16

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I bet if they were really letting him wear what he wanted, he'd be a pirate or a monster.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 20 Feb 2014 20:51 #17

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You may find this difficult to believe...but as a child, I liked to dress up - A LOT.

I also liked to play with dolls houses.

At the same time, I liked playing in mud and building things from Lego (usually houses).

My father in particular frowned upon the aforementioned and discouraged it. He had little to say about the latter.

Either way, I still ended up a poof, albeit an intensly masculine and attractive (not to mention modest) poof.

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Gender Neutral Parenting 20 Feb 2014 21:24 #18

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I don't think it's an issue whether he grows up to be gay, tbh, Abs. It's more the fact that he doesn't know at his age that he's going to attract hatred & bullying in all probability from his peers pretty soon, as a result of his parents actions, and won't have a clue what it's all about. Kids can be cruel, and very quick to pick out anyone who's a bit different in any way.
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Gender Neutral Parenting 20 Feb 2014 21:46 #19

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Agreed. Reminds me of the About A Boy film a bit.

Though I fucking hate Hugh Grant & tbh I am usually with the school of thought that we shouldn't conform to expectations..... so.... maybe I should be agreeing with these fake lib nutters :conf: :scratch:
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Gender Neutral Parenting 20 Feb 2014 22:03 #20

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Yeah but not conforming your self is one thing. I reckon it's a bit different when it's not yourself directly, but your child who's destined to bear most of the brunt of it.
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