I make no apologies for this being a bit of a long OP, but I need to give you a clear picture of why I have given this thread the title I have,
Let me tell you my story.....
Way back on DIF some of you will remember I started a Valentines Greetings thread. The idea was that people could use me as a go between to send anonymous messages of gratitude and thanks to other forum members. Some of course had fun posting romantic tongue in cheek poems anonymously to other members. This led to some really good friendships being forged, almost a little clique of people who really got on. Something this forum has indeed been accused of on many an occasion.
Well, that thread led to bigger things. It led to some of us actually getting together at a meet up. The idea behind these meet ups was to 'brainstorm' if you will, ideas about how not to beat 'The System', but play them at their own game. These meet ups were held here in Birchwood, and by the 3rd meet up, not only did we have people coming from as far away as Edinburgh and Eastbourne, but I had the feeling somebody would turn up that had not told us that they would.
You see people had to PM me to get the details of where the meet ups were going to be. I would only put out the date on the forum. I asked for people to contact me directly for the where so I could confirm numbers with the local hostelry as to how many lunches they should be prepared for. By now Jim and myself were pretty much convinced that PM's were being read, so it was obvious that if an 'unconfirmed' person turned up, he could only have got that info from reading PM's. Right enough a man called, believe it or not Gareth, turned up. He turned up a little late and left no sooner than we had our lunch. Everybody agreed he was suspect, besides the fact how did he know where to come as he had not contacted me and would not have known who else was coming to get the info off them.
So, the next thing, Very quickly after that meet up, another meet up was being arranged, and lo and behold, Sean starts a thread not only in my name angelchemuel, but my face and signing off with Rainbows, Jane. Jim and I could see what was going on and Jim immediately set about setting up Sanctum 1 as a stepping stone. I did not take part in that thread at all because by now Sean had been called out on it and admitted he had written the thread. So having not been posting anywhere on the DIF for 2 weeks I suddenly found I was banned...and then started the rest of the bannings. To top it all Sean went about deleting all my rainbows Jane sign offs so as to try and avoid any possibility of me doing him for identity theft. Weeman can attest to this.
OK, moving on. Yes, I lost my rag well and truly on here just before Christmas with 2 of the members here in particular. I meant every word I said because in my rant the real reason behind what seemed like my totally out of character behaviour was not explained. For that I do apologise. Jhado was here with me that night and he knows why I did it. Because for the very same reasons I was arranging meet ups on the DIF, I could see why forums are working back to front and as a consequence working against us who take part in them. This will make a little more sense further on.
As some of you know I am also a member over on ATS. So a couple of weeks ago I stated a Valentines Greetings thread over there. Guess what happened? Yes, yet again a little clique of people became the main players. There was not one single troll or nasty post on it. It started taking on a life of its own. One member even wrote a song about the thread and some of its most 'notorious' posters which we adopted as our 'anthem'. Quite rightly I suppose, about a week after Valentines the thread got closed by the mods because valentines day was now over. However, I was inundated with PM's from people who had been following the thread and wondering why such a lovely, fun thread had been closed. One even said it had replaced their 'soap' because it was so full of positive vibes, laughs and creativity.
Here's the thread if any of you fancy a laugh...
www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread996608/pg1
By now we had taken on the name of the Rainbows Room, and people were asking me to start a Rainbow Room thread. So I did, making sure I showed that Valentines wasn't all about the western tradition of anonymous love notes, but had lots of different meanings all over the world and indeed is celebrated on different dates throughout the year. I can't give you a link to that thread because it was suspended pending moderator review, and has since been deleted by ATS. It has taken them 3 days to come back to me with an explanation as to why and why they deleted the thread completely. I am not going to post all their explanations on here because I don't want to get Sanctum into any kind of trouble, suffice to say it opened my eyes up to what is really going on behind forums such as DIF ATS etc and why they do not like people forming
"forum gang" mentality
Whilst waiting for a response as to why Rainbows Room had been suspended, one of the "Forum Gang" had started a short story about The Shed in the writers section. The Shed, you see, was something that came about from the Valentines Greetings thread. She based her little chapters on the "Forum Gang" Characters. Lo and behold the mods have started editing posts they deem to be off topic. So it begins again. Just to add to the bizzare every time the OP has been trying to post since the 'editing' she gets booted off ATS. All she has been able to do is send a PM to me telling me what is happening and it has spooked her. It is seriously as though the "Forum Gang" have been flagged and they are watching our every move/post.
So to bring me full circle. It would appear to me now, that on big forums, where close friendships or "Forum Gangs" form it is frowned upon. You arrange meet ups....no,no,no.....can't have that either. To me it's as though people are being controlled not to form friendships and just get along. It is brazen to me that if people do this they send in trolls or socks or whatever the correct term is, to keep angst going on forums, to keep people divided and in their homes forever going round and round with the same old, same old conspiracy theories or current affairs, but keeping us penned in so we don't get off our arses and do something practical to take on the system. This gives them the time they need to let lose some other kind of restrictions to our freedoms, and the first we know of these things is when we inevitably find out about them on the net.
Ironically tonight I stumbled across this thread that was started 2 days ago
www.abovetopsecret.com/forum/thread999418/pg1
which just signed it all off for me....it's worth a read.
I'm sorry about the length of this OP. But I have also had Sonia Poulton on my back, and I'm just fed up to the back teeth of trying to spread rainbows anymore. It's a very sad, sad world in the land of internet forums, and the negativity is just dragging me down.