marina wrote:
If you kindly say to someone, out of concern, "look your kid is on the chubby side, that might reflect on his health later in life" they take it the wrong way, you might even get sued or something, because chances are, the parents are fat "plus-size" too, and instead of taking responsibility they turn to blame - you!
.... so fuck them and fuck this politically correct world.
Some people are just not fit to be parents - addicts, and food is an addiction too.
In no way I'm promoting eugenics, but if you can't raise a child and aren't fit to be a parent, don't have them. It's not all about money (though children are expensive), I'm afraid it takes much more to deserve to be called "mum" or "dad".
I wouldn't wanna bring a child in this fucked up world anyway.
Think you have to be careful directly telling parents little Jimmy/Janis is a little chubby as you'll never win - criticizing any part of a parents skills in bringing up their kids you'll never win. They will take the comment personally and if you haven't got kids "you don't know anything" so what you say doesn't count. Unless you have input in the child's life which can change things, saying something to mum and dad won't make any difference.
The article Evie posted is more serious though I would like to see the demographics of how it is broken down - could also be other underlying issues of why the child is overeating. There is also peer pressure to go to these fast food joints, my niece used to be really cool about the fact I wouldn't take her to MaccyD's but as she has got older the stuff I told her has fallen by the way side - in her One Direction phase at the mo - 16th birthday present will be "Fast Food food Nation"...lucky she likes books.
I don't think you can say that all addicts are bad parents - too sweeping. My mate at school was a bit chubby and so was her mum, but she came from a loving family who were really good to me when things were going too well with with my own. I've known alcoholics and drug users who were not necessarily bad parents. Sometimes it's the ones who to all intents and purposes are normal where the shit hits the fan in a bad way.
Totally agree with your last two sentences