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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 10:43 #41

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They hate men. Thats the problem tbh.
Didn't someone say a while back the SS have targets for children to split from families?

Andy I am disappoint. I normally hold your views in high regard but in this thread you've talked some utter shite.
Here's an interesting fact for you:

The SS twat that was in charge of looking into the shit my kids were being made to endure was, shock horror, a fucking man. A married man with children :O
It's fair to say that I've had quite a bit of contact with SS in the past few years and in my experience the male/female split is pretty balanced. I've really never thought to ask any of them what their sexuality is.

I suspect from what you've written here that you have NO first hand experience of the SS and have built the views you've expressed here on an apparent dislike of lesbians mixed with a good dose of bullshit you've read .

I have 1st hand experience of them Dub, its why I moved house originally :roll:

I have no dislike of lesbians, its great to watch tbh,...
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 10:54 #42

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andyh wrote:
I have 1st hand experience of them Dub, its why I moved house originally :roll:

I have no dislike of lesbians, its great to watch tbh,...
Ok, I stand corrected on that view then. Sorry you've had to deal with one of the biggest loads of shite in the British Isles too.

Fact remains though that you're lesbo comment is a load of old dog puke :P
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 11:00 #43

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Are the SS the nazi's that I imagine them to be?
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 11:02 #44

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LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
Are the SS the nazi's that I imagine them to be?
I'd say the Nazi's were probably a lot better at their jobs Lesley.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 11:06 #45

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dubmeup wrote:
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Are the SS the nazi's that I imagine them to be?
I'd say the Nazi's were probably a lot better at their jobs Lesley.

Oh, is it more a case of do-gooders with no common sense rather than Nazi's?
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 11:07 #46

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dubmeup wrote:
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I have 1st hand experience of them Dub, its why I moved house originally :roll:

I have no dislike of lesbians, its great to watch tbh,...
Ok, I stand corrected on that view then. Sorry you've had to deal with one of the biggest load of shite in the British Isles too.

Fact remains though that you're lesbo comment is a load of old dog puke :P

Its quite relevant for the vile old women I met in both Kendal and Durham.
The one in Durham even knew when I arrived and even mentioned that the 'nice lady in Kendal' had told her all about me...sigh.
What are the odds I wonder.
I gave both of them the same message, stay the fuck away from my wife and kids and mind your own business.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 11:34 #47

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LesleyPumpshaft wrote:

Oh, is it more a case of do-gooders with no common sense rather than Nazi's?
My experience is that absolutely there is NO common sense.
In my kids case, the SS concluded that what was happening represented "unacceptable parenting" but fell just short of actual abuse. Therefore in their opinion things could be allowed to carry on as they were........
I wouldn't say they are do gooders, I'd say they are people enjoying a rather cushy little number. This is an example of why.
One friday evening I was on the phone to the twat that was in charge of looking into the situation my kids were suffering. It's fair to say that I was in a quite anxious state and had much that needed discussing urgently. Several minutes in, the twat informed me that it was past his clocking off time and he'd like to end the call quickly so he could go home. It's fair to say that I gave him both barrels of my tongue for that one.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 12:23 #48

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Some people have no common sense or parenting skills no matter what their status in life is rich or poor doesn't matter.

Yeah people who work for the Social Services fall into that catergory - Usually cos they dont HAVE any kids of their own, but they like to act as though they are experts in the subject.

I wouldn't know anything about the social services as i have never had experience with them as an adult or a child.

My original statement above is totally correct and i will go on to add that many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

Many middle class people dump their kids with nannies then at boarding school until the child is an adult and have very little input into their child's lives which is very unnatural behavior.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 12:58 #49

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many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

:conf: Evidence for that statement?
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 13:07 #50

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dubmeup wrote:
LesleyPumpshaft wrote:

Oh, is it more a case of do-gooders with no common sense rather than Nazi's?
My experience is that absolutely there is NO common sense.
In my kids case, the SS concluded that what was happening represented "unacceptable parenting" but fell just short of actual abuse. Therefore in their opinion things could be allowed to carry on as they were........
I wouldn't say they are do gooders, I'd say they are people enjoying a rather cushy little number. This is an example of why.
One friday evening I was on the phone to the twat that was in charge of looking into the situation my kids were suffering. It's fair to say that I was in a quite anxious state and had much that needed discussing urgently. Several minutes in, the twat informed me that it was past his clocking off time and he'd like to end the call quickly so he could go home. It's fair to say that I gave him both barrels of my tongue for that one.

Thanks for explaining. It doesn't surprise me. I'm just sorry that you have had to deal with twunts like this.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:04 #51

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dubmeup wrote:
humanspirit wrote:
many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

:conf: Evidence for that statement?

HaHaHa your not real.

Why have so many members of this forum had dealings with the social services?

I'm out of this forum!
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:08 #52

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humanspirit wrote:
dubmeup wrote:
humanspirit wrote:
many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

:conf: Evidence for that statement?

HaHaHa your not real.

Why have so many members of this forum had dealings with the social services?

I'm out of this forum!

????

Probably because they live in the UK and have kids, the SS ALWAYS visit when that happens.
I'm guessing you're not from the united krapdom? or untied kondom as AA called it lol.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:14 #53

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Hey, this thread wasn't meant to turn nasty at all :( :conf:

I was just curious to know whether anyone else though that the video in the OP was a piece of vicious propaganda that was intended to fuel a witch-hunt against single mums (in much the same way that they have demonised the disabled who claim benefits).

As the OP, can I please request that people don't start getting personal? This isn't the David Icke Forum you know! :cool: :hahano: :oldfart:
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:19 #54

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humanspirit wrote:
dubmeup wrote:
humanspirit wrote:
many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

:conf: Evidence for that statement?

HaHaHa your not real.

Why have so many members of this forum had dealings with the social services?

I'm out of this forum!
As I've stated in my case I've had dealings with them because the mother of my kids married a man that took to dragging them about by their necks, throwing them at walls, hitting them, throwing hard objects at them, screaming at them etc etc. When my kids gave me cause for concern, I got the truth out of them (they'd been pushed into keeping it from me) and I foolishly thought the SS might help to put a stop to it. Which as I've said, they didn't. I put a stop to it, in my own way.
Got an issue with that? Well so do I.

No evidence forthcoming to back up your statement then eh.........well ok then. I shall consider it to be bollox.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:22 #55

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LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
Hey, this thread wasn't meant to turn nasty at all :( :conf:

I was just curious to know whether anyone else though that the video in the OP was a piece of vicious propaganda that was intended to fuel a witch-hunt against single mums (in much the same way that they have demonised the disabled who claim benefits).

As the OP, can I please request that people don't start getting personal? This isn't the David Icke Forum you know! :cool: :hahano: :oldfart:

Its just yet more divide and conquer family splitting stuff tbh.
Once they're finished kicking dads out of the family they'll remove mums next then its test tubes for everyone as the norm :)
Maybe the state will be your parent..
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:25 #56

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dubmeup wrote:
humanspirit wrote:
dubmeup wrote:
humanspirit wrote:
many parents are selfish people who want kids like an object to own,like the latest fashion accessory or status symbol (idiots).

:conf: Evidence for that statement?

HaHaHa your not real.

Why have so many members of this forum had dealings with the social services?

I'm out of this forum!
As I've stated in my case I've had dealings with them because the mother of my kids married a man that took to dragging them about by their necks, throwing them at walls, hitting them, throwing hard objects at them, screaming at them etc etc.
Got an issue with that? Well so do I.

No evidence forthcoming to back up your statement then eh.........well ok then. I shall consider it to be bollox.

It has to be bollox anyway dub because the SS visit everyone after the nurse has finished visiting on the first week of baby at home.
The home nurses are great by the way, they've always done a good job imho.

The state knows from the moment you register the birth basically, the UK is pretty well organised when it comes to population data.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:29 #57

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andyh wrote:
LesleyPumpshaft wrote:
Hey, this thread wasn't meant to turn nasty at all :( :conf:

I was just curious to know whether anyone else though that the video in the OP was a piece of vicious propaganda that was intended to fuel a witch-hunt against single mums (in much the same way that they have demonised the disabled who claim benefits).

As the OP, can I please request that people don't start getting personal? This isn't the David Icke Forum you know! :cool: :hahano: :oldfart:

Its just yet more divide and conquer family splitting stuff tbh.
Once they're finished kicking dads out of the family they'll remove mums next then its test tubes for everyone as the norm :)
Maybe the state will be your parent..

The state is like a parent already. People spend most of their childhood at indoctrination centres.
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:30 #58

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"The home nurses are great by the way, they’ve always done a good job imho."

I sort of agree andy. I didn't have a bad experience with the health visitors when the kids were babies. That said, it was made clear that if the kids strayed from the proscribed centile range or owt like that, the health visitors have powers to 'intervene'. It's also not unheard of for them to do so.....
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:31 #59

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LesleyPumpshaft wrote:

The state is like a parent already. People spend most of their childhood at indoctrination centres.

Its like an overbearing parent that will never ever let you grow up and leave the house.
Cathy Bates x 1000 lol :)
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Re: Why are they blaming just mothers for kid's bad behaviour? 24 Jul 2012 14:34 #60

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I sort of agree andy. I didn't have a bad experience with the health visitors when the kids were babies. That said, it was made clear that if the kids strayed from the proscribed centile range or owt like that, the health visitors have powers to 'intervene'. It's also not unheard of for them to do so.....

I've had 4 kids so I got four visits. I didn't ask the SS to turn up on the doorstep and I told them to f-off :)

The nurse visit I've no bother with at all, in fact its useful that the mother gets watched in case they get an infection afterwards etc.
The SS though shouldn't be turning up by default and trying to worm their way in with the missus while the blokes at work...if you know what I mean..
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