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TOPIC: 27 Dead in School Shooting - Sandy Hook Elementary School

Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 00:30 #261

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They'll always land in the psycho nutter bracket, we have to investigate more and learn why they are happening and then do something to fix it.

I agree.

Although I'd suggest a proportion are indirectly to do with money - borne of the nature of our society whose nature is largely determined by money. I've known a lot of nutters in my time through work and what has always struck me is with a lot -not all but a lot - of them, once you get them in a room on their own they're really not that bad underneath it all. But they're stuck in a life that's become a habit for them. So I guess I'm arguing society makes a lot of them,. And that society is one that money plays a huge role in.

With you all the way there yep :)
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 00:34 #262

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Did I say this is a world without fear?

In total fainess you haven’t, nope :)
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 00:48 #263

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Well firstly I'd argue that males are also often insecure - though it has to be said some of them pretend they aren't when they're on the street. Males are often confronted with the spectre of having to present their manliness to other men. What the fuck you lookin' at? Think you're fucking hard? Fucking come on then.

Come on then! Wow, you guys must have it so tough. I feel for yas...
Seriously, dude. Weak. Coming from someone like yourself, I’m more than just disappointed
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[...]And I'd have to say with all honesty women in my life - and I've probably more female friends than male ones - may be insecure, but not insecure in feeling there is a world of evil trying to burst in. [+] They're much more prone to feeling insecure about people around them. I know a fair few women who think nothing of staggering around in the early hours totally off their tits trying to hail a cab but have strangely dysfunction relationships whose exact dynamics I'm never really sure of and am not sure I want to be. [...]

You’ve been lied to. Why? I sincerely don’t know. There’s a huge balancing act for women to maintain: being the weaker sex vs. we’re not weak damn you! and I’ll prove it to you by... (insert prowess’s that won’t sound too impressive to you anyway).
Je-eez! :roll:
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[..] The 0.01% I was referring to was the sort of loon who will enter a school with a gun and shoot everyone. Not the everyday normal loon who might give his missus a slap and then have a nice chat with the newsagent as he buys the paper.

Oh! so, general female insecurity = husband/bf/partner/random sexual counterpart- giving them a slap every now and then for no ‘good’ reason. Gottcha :thumbup:
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 00:56 #264

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Talking about this gun issue has made me think of the following, which I just find hilarious:

www.itv.com/news/tyne-tees/story/2012-11...aunch-knife-amnesty/
Police launch knife amnesty

Police in Redcar & Cleveland are appealing for people to hand in knives that could be used as weapons in the run-up to Christmas.

They're holding a 5-week amnesty, and say people will be able to hand in knives without fear of punishment by placing them in special bins throughout the area.

They will be set up at police offices in Redcar, South Bank, Guisborough and Eston, and will be available until 31st December.

Chief Inspector Tariq Ali, Head of Neighbourhood Policing in the area said: "We have run similar amnesties in the past very successfully. However, there is always someone out there who, for whatever reason will have a knife in their possession. So now is the time to do something about it."
I hope we can eradicate knives from society completely, this knife amnesty seems like a step in the right direction. All the dangerous people who might use a knife are bound to turn up for the knife amnesty, I would have thought...

This is the whole point about guns. I've never owned or used a gun, or even seen one outside of an airport. I'm not hugely keen on them. But people that really want them won't give them up, and will find a way of getting one. That's why you have firearms offences going up, not down, after Dunblane and the resulting handgun legislation. It's why you have 28 handgun crimes being committed every day in Britain. To cite the example of Switzerland again, they famously have the lowest amount of gun-related crime in the world, one of the highest levels of gun ownership, and have consistently voted in favour of retaining their existing laws.

In terms of drugs, most sensible people would say that on the whole they're not a good thing, but also that prohibition has (a) failed, and (b) not had any significant impact on the availability of drugs. Why would you expect anything different with guns? And why would you expect handgun legislation to be any more successful in eradicating guns from society than a knife amnesty from completely eradicating knives?
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 01:02 #265

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How much does the global war on drugs cost, how much would it cost to provide the world with whatever drugs they want, even if it's deadly levels...or especially, dead junkies cost less!?
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 01:04 #266

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Might be an idea to remind yerself of the forum rules Stars :)

Fuck the forum rules dubs... as a parent and a mother who does live with the fact she failed her son not once, but more than once I will NOT stand for any comment in any way shape or form aimed towards any child.

Ban my ass... I stand by everything I said. People should think about the effect their words have on others, even on the internet, if even a single parent who lost a child yesterday was to read what was said they would fall to fucking pieces. I fell to fucking pieces and my son is still alive. So go on, if someone has a problem with me making a threat that I can fallow through on if someone is stupid enough to even hint at something against a child, then ban me...I'll make it even easier, I'll leave willingly so no one has to make that decision... not u, not sketti, not any of the mods, not dg, not nov. Threaten a child even by insinuation get ur ass beat to a bloody pulp. so yea, if that is wrong n breakin some law of the land that were expect to follow like some fuckin gosple, then do it, whoever has the power to do it, do it.
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 01:13 #267

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I hope we can eradicate knives from society completely, this knife amnesty seems like a step in the right direction. All the dangerous people who might use a knife are bound to turn up for the knife amnesty, I would have thought...

lol, and I hope that was tongue in cheek because tonight is damn hard to read for some reason...
On the topic of knives restrictions; all it accomplished was to make it damn hard to get (or replace) a good knife for simple cooking, which.. I wish I was exaggerating... I’m not.
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How much does the global war on drugs cost, how much would it cost to provide the world with whatever drugs they want, even if it's deadly levels...or especially, dead junkies cost less!?

Once you understand that agencies such as the CIA are behind (read: dealing/ers) the drug trade, it all becomes clearer all over sudden...
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 01:19 #268

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lol, and I hope that was tongue in cheek because tonight is damn hard to read for some reason...
On the topic of knives restrictions; all it accomplished was to make it damn hard to get (or replace) a good knife for simple cooking, which.. I wish I was exaggerating... I’m not.
Seeing as you're not in my neck of the woods, you might be interested in this thread:

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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 01:26 #269

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Seeing as you're not in my neck of the woods, you might be interested in this thread:

sanctumzone.co.uk/forum/General/43267-Ac...e-Weapons.html#43267

Don’t you worry pal, I got you covered! I remember reading that thread! :)
BTW, thank you for bringing us such timely reminders of what the f*ck's goin’ on.
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Don’t you worry pal, I got you covered! I remember reading that thread! :)
BTW, thank you for bringing us such timely reminders of what the f*ck's goin’ on.
No problem.
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 02:41 #271

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Stars , in the nicest possible way , take a deep breath.

Yor last post was pretty nasty. All I would say is if you want to say stuff like ,and I quote from you 'Peo­ple should think about the effect their words have on oth­ers, even on the inter­net' you should listen to your own advice
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 09:29 #272

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Makes you wonder with this happening now and then and there being unsatisfactory explanations for the behaviour of the gunmen who immediately also suicide if there might be something to the manchurian candidate theory
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 09:38 #273

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Come on then! Wow, you guys must have it so tough. I feel for yas...
Seriously, dude. Weak. Coming from someone like yourself, I’m more than just disappointed
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It's not a victim competition about who has t the toughest. All I'm saying is men don't operate from a position of zero pressures on them and plenty of men suffer from insecurities. It's not black and white. Hell, though men have historically held a dominant position and in many ways still do, I've nevertheless known men who have been bullied by women. Erin Pizzey - who pioneered women's shelters - went on to piss some feminists off by going on to highlight domestic violence from women against men. Of course the majority is men against women, but it does occur the other way round too. The irony here being many men will refuse to hit women even if they hit them. And like I said men also suffer from social pressures to measure up to other men - particularly young males. I stress again I'm not saying oooh men have it so tough, women just don't understand, just that it's not the case men have it all easy and women have it all hard. Overall men have experienced greater social power, but that isn't how it just is. In the same way black people have historically had less power, but that doesn't mean white people are always more powerful and secure than black people.

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You’ve been lied to. Why? I sincerely don’t know. There’s a huge balancing act for women to maintain: being the weaker sex vs. we’re not weak damn you! and I’ll prove it to you by... (insert prowess’s that won’t sound too impressive to you anyway).
Je-eez! :roll:

I have??? Women I'm close to will tell me how they feel about things. This may include trouble they have with their male partner. But the women I hang around with don't see themselves as the "weaker sex" even if they're feeling weak and insecure on a personal basis. Though they may take issue with men who expect them to conform to "traditional" female roles. Most women I know view women as being inherently emotionally stronger than men. And they're probably right.
Oh! so, general female insecurity = husband/bf/partner/random sexual counterpart- giving them a slap every now and then for no ‘good’ reason. Gottcha :thumbup:

I didn't say that at all. I was just pointing out that the 0.01% I was referring to was the sort of people who will go on a homicidal rampage with a gun. This is very extreme behaviour. Beating up a stranger in an alleyway for no reason, mugging an old lady or giving the missus a slap are all really bad things and terrible for the victim, but I think most people would agree picking up a gun and massacring people willy nilly is worse and far more unusual.
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 09:45 #274

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Might be an idea to remind yerself of the forum rules Stars :)

Fuck the forum rules dubs... as a parent and a mother who does live with the fact she failed her son not once, but more than once I will NOT stand for any comment in any way shape or form aimed towards any child.

Ban my ass... I stand by everything I said. People should think about the effect their words have on others, even on the internet, if even a single parent who lost a child yesterday was to read what was said they would fall to fucking pieces. I fell to fucking pieces and my son is still alive. So go on, if someone has a problem with me making a threat that I can fallow through on if someone is stupid enough to even hint at something against a child, then ban me...I'll make it even easier, I'll leave willingly so no one has to make that decision... not u, not sketti, not any of the mods, not dg, not nov. Threaten a child even by insinuation get ur ass beat to a bloody pulp. so yea, if that is wrong n breakin some law of the land that were expect to follow like some fuckin gosple, then do it, whoever has the power to do it, do it.

So you're now deciding that pointing out armed teachers could potentially present a threat to children is some kind of threat against children? Does that mean if someone points out armed police might pose a threat to children (and the police in the US have occasionally shot young people who aren't yet adults by mistake) this means that's a threat to children?

Where have I threatened children? Give the Olanzapine a chance to kick in before you answer.

And this apparent delusion leads you to issue deranged threats against me and threaten to hack the forum - thus showing total contempt for the people who run it into he bargain?

Oh and if anyone who lost a child read the thread generally they'd probably go to pieces. But I expect they have other things on their mind right now than browsing internet forums.

Loon.
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If I thought you'd threatened a child or shown any disrespect to the victims DM, I'd be all over you like a rash.

But you didn't did you ;)
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 10:17 #276

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Makes you wonder with this happening now and then and there being unsatisfactory explanations for the behaviour of the gunmen who immediately also suicide if there might be something to the manchurian candidate theory

You might me onto something there. If I remember correctly there was some evidence pointing at that on previous shootings. On this one I don't know, it wouldn't seem to be the case, but then again it might be too early to tell.
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The BBC, in their profile of Adam Lanza, describe him as "friendless". Interestingly they say this in the piece:
"He apparently had no Facebook page and his electronic footprint was minimal. "

So not having a facebook account is a relevant factor to being a child slaughtering nutter...
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 10:27 #278

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And does this single mother know how to use this here handgun? Has she spent days on the shooting range, or is she going to ineptly plant a few rounds in the skirting board.

That'd really be THE only way to enable an effective and responsible course of action, otherwise acquiring a gun would be pretty useless. Training should come as a mandatory aspect of gun-purchasing, at least for the first-time buyers, those not familiar with how to properly use a firearm.
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I once read a book about Manchester gangs. I can't say if this is true, but the author claimed there had been relatively few deaths because the kids who ran round tooled up hadn't got a fucking clue about how to use a gun and kept missing when they shot at each other. They bought them for power and status but didn't realise it's not like the movies where you can pick up a gun and instantly become the Terminator.

What can ya say? Some people are just stupid.
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And isn't the real question why these meth heads have nothing to lose? As Oioioi suggested, the reasons why the situation arises is surely pivotal?

Of course, but there are a million and one different scenarios that can and do play out in the real world everyday. I just gave an example for one such scenario.
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And that particular example is far removed from some guy going on a killing rampage - it smacks more of the poor and desperate turning on each other.

It still illustrates a valid reason why the average (AND eligible!) citizen should have the right to own firearms should they choose to do so.
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Countries full of armed homeowners nervously cradling their pistols in case the barbarians are at the gates is surely not the answer.

No, but an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.
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People are going on about the dread spectre of gun control - let's face it, in the US that is not going to happen - people will just talk about it for a few weeks - but the other side is the fear of each other, the fear that some nutcase is going to barge down the door and murder everyone. And this line of thinking wants us to live in fear of each other because 0.01% is a loon who may just lose their shit in a big way.

You're not wrong. But there's (like novum has said) a LOT more to this than just a cut-n-dried "Guns or No Guns" kinda solution. Ultimately, in my opinion, this stems from an emotionally vacant society awash in the aftermath of spiritual disconnect.

I'm originally from Texas. I now live in the UK. Before moving here, I'd NEVER owned a firearm. Nor do I own one now. (Duh, they're illegal over here, haha.) I wouldn't own a gun of ANY kind if you paid me! Guns give me the heeby-jeebies, just holding an unloaded gun makes me queasy. (I never liked fireworks either, even as a kid. Something about loud noises for nothing, just went against my grain.) BUT, I DO wholeheartedly support a persons right to own firearms (legally, all aboveboard) if they so choose. I wish it could be any other way.

I wish there weren't the need for guns in the hands of a citizen population, but until the psychotic criminal factions running the planet have a change of heart and allow things to operate on a global-scale the way that they should, then I'm not gonna be able to see a world without guns. As long as heartless, soulless entities walking this Earth have weapons that can kill or any kind of access to said weapons, I don't think it's right or fair to take that ability away from those of whom would only use such a weapon as a means of protection against those, that would in nearly all cases, see them robbed or dead.

I hear what you're saying. '.

But I reckon it's worth thinking about this whole thing of "It still illustrates a valid reason why the average (AND eligible!) citizen should have the right to own firearms". Whether we should have the 'right' or not is something of a moot point. America is going to keep its guns - there m\ay be periodic debates but no president s realistically going to try to ban gun ownership - even only because it would be political suicide. And the UK is not going to get guns back.
But why does some random nutcase mean people should have guns?
Firstly, though you can get guns here in the UK, you have to know the right people. You can't just go and buy one in the shops. Having guns also makes it easier for them to have one in the first place - you really have to be connected with gang people otherwise.
Secondly, though this sort of thing seems to happen with depressing regularity in the US, it's still pretty rare. It's huge news exactly because it doesn't happen every day. They say every 11 seconds a child dies from hunger - that's not news, it's 'normal'.
Yesterday was Saturday night and I'd wager there were thousands of fights just in the UK - that's 'normal'. You may get struck by lightening, you may win the lottery, you may have a random embolism - like they say, it could be you. But it's not very likely. There's really no point cowering under the table wearing your wellies every time there is a thunderstorm. Like my aunt used to.
Why are people going to burst into your home? There may be some instances of a deranged rapist breaking in, but this is about as worth worrying about as if a serial killer is going to target you - the odds are vanishingly small. Most people are going to be engaged in property theft. Ok, they may get nasty if discovered, but what's interesting here is the notion of the primacy of property - if some crack head broke into my house to steal my telly I reckon I'd want to batter fuck out of them. But shoot them? A life for a telly? Because let's face it - unless you have some beef with someone, it's more than likely people are going to break in to steal stuff. And we slip into this thinking it's ok to put our property before anything else. The end result is making human life mean less than goods. I know that isn't what you meant, but that is the end result based on what you're actually likely to face. And it's an insidious slide from the remote chance of an armed psychopath to it being acceptable to use deadly force in defence of stuff - Git off mah property *Blam!*

So yeah - if you have a gun you should know how to use it. So you invest time on a range. Training yourself for the remote possibility someone might try to bust into your house and rape or murder you. You're spending hours investing in the vague possibility of something that's very unlikely to happen. And you've got a gun in the house. So what if you lose your shit? What if your teenage child does and pulls a Columbine? What if you or your child feels really down and the thought occurs they have an instant suicide tool available.

I understand your notion of protection, but I think there is a danger that becomes a preoccupation with fearing other people on the remote chance you might be very unlucky. And say if you shot some 19 year old who'd broken in to steal your DVD player to buy heroin and got aggro when you confronted them - personally I'd rather let them have the DVD than live with the knowledge I'd killed somebody over some manufactured product - and again I know that's not what you meant, but again that's the sort of situation you're realistically looking at. It's like a scaled down version of nuclear deterrent - you have the protection, but do you really want to use it? And where does it all end?

Guns are designed to kill. It's what they're for. And it's an enormous industry. And the more normal they are, the more we accept them. And the notion we should be armed just in case is exactly how governments sell us the notion of armies. For our protection.
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Re: 27 Dead in School Shooting 16 Dec 2012 10:44 #279

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This guy had a totally clean record.
Not so much as a parking ticket.

He would actually be a candidate for getting a gun even if guns were licensed as in the UK.
You can still get a shotgun legally in the UK for example afaik if you can show that you use it on private land for vermin control etc and that you do not have a criminal record.
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It's not a victim competition about who has t the toughest. All I'm saying is men don't operate from a position of zero pressures on them and plenty of men suffer from insecurities. It's not black and white. Hell, though men have historically held a dominant position and in many ways still do, I've nevertheless known men who have been bullied by women. Erin Pizzey - who pioneered women's shelters - went on to piss some feminists off by going on to highlight domestic violence from women against men. Of course the majority is men against women, but it does occur the other way round too. The irony here being many men will refuse to hit women even if they hit them. And like I said men also suffer from social pressures to measure up to other men - particularly young males. I stress again I'm not saying oooh men have it so tough, women just don't understand, just that it's not the case men have it all easy and women have it all hard. Overall men have experienced greater social power, but that isn't how it just is. In the same way black people have historically had less power, but that doesn't mean white people are always more powerful and secure than black people [...]

I knew what you meant and that’s why I said what I said before. What you’re saying while true, it kind of sounds like when men hijack a debate on female circumcision with the good old: but what about the menz circumcision!
I would say that statistically black men suffer from a hell of lot more insecurity/violence than the while folks. Does that mean that white men are completely free from such problems? No.
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I have??? Women I'm close to will tell me how they feel about things. This may include trouble they have with their male partner. But the women I hang around with don't see themselves as the "weaker sex" even if they're feeling weak and insecure on a personal basis. Though they may take issue with men who expect them to conform to "traditional" female roles. Most women I know view women as being inherently emotionally stronger than men. And they're probably right.

I still stand by my words, for women insecurity (nothing to do with self-esteem nor insecurities about their bodies/character/personality etc) is a big ever present problem. That they don’t talk about it on a daily basis doesn’t mean that they don’t worry about it constantly and act according to those concerns, for the most part.
dogsmilk wrote:
I didn't say that at all. I was just pointing out that the 0.01% I was referring to was the sort of people who will go on a homicidal rampage with a gun. This is very extreme behaviour. Beating up a stranger in an alleyway for no reason, mugging an old lady or giving the missus a slap are all really bad things and terrible for the victim, but I think most people would agree picking up a gun and massacring people willy nilly is worse and far more unusual.

Is still violence. That was my point.
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